I was asked the question, "why do nice guys finish last?" by @aprilnicky via BBM earlier. My immediate response was, "because they aren't as aggressive as the bad guys" followed by, "that's why I am in between". But being who she is @aprilnicky was not satisfied with that answer. I elaborated some more and said, "I really think about being a nice guy sometimes but people tend to take advantage of people who are too nice.". That was my explanation for being in the middle. I went on further to say, "I'm not going to let my mate walk all over me- that's not me. I lay down my rules and if it comes out the wrong way, "SORRY...get over it". Now I'm not trying to sound mean y'all but, if you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. Of course you don't want to be too harsh where the person will run away but, you need to have some sort of "shield" to put up once a person tries to declare you as a floor mat. Sistahs will push Brothas to the limit if you allow them and at the same time that Brotha might get sidelined for being a punk. So therefore,- both Brothas and Sistahs- have a tiny bit of "meaness" within you for the times when you are about to get "stomped" on!!!
Signing Off....Peace
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Monday, June 14, 2010
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